Ask Shanni

By Shanni on Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Filled Under: advice, shanni's advice column

Welcome To My New Advice Column Which Just Began As Of 7.1.09

I Love Helping People & Am Asked Questions All The Time About How To Do This, Or Where To Find That, & What Can I Do For This. I Love Helping People And Do So A Lot For Personal Use & Professional Help. I’d Love To Help You Out If You’ll Let Me. Simply Submit Your Question And I Will Answer Your Question The Best I Can. I Do Monitor Questions Submitted & Don’t Publicly Post Anything That Would Be Harmful To Others Especially Kids, Violate Privacy, Or Offend Others. Nor Will I Tolerate Spam - This Website Is Protected By Akismet. Other Than That, Ask Away, Ask An Expert, And Work At Home Mom. I Love To Help Others & Love To Help You!

Happy Birthday Shelden! Updates, And A New Advice Column

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First, I Want To Wish My Baby Boy Shelden Who Lives With His Dad In California A HAPPY 12TH BIRTHDAY From Your Family Here In Utah. We Love You And Wish We Could Be With You!

So We Moved Over The Weekend And Just Barely Got Every Last Thing Out Of Our Old Place Yesterday. They Were Planning On Cleaning It Out Yesterday & Today. I Sent Out A Thanks On Facebook To Those Who Helped Us, But Wanted To Say Thanks Here Too - Thanks Everyone Who Helped Us Move!

And Cherri - Still Want To Go To Coffee? I’d Love To Go - Haven’t Been To Coffee With Friends In A While. Or Let’s Go Line Dancing On A Girls Night Out!!! Leave The Boys Home & Just Go Boot Scoot!!! I Love To Dance!

So Also, For Those Who Know My Online Work As A WAHM, I’ve Been Re-vamping Some Sites That Went Down A Few Months Ago During The Great Fall Of Shanni Einer. Take A Look

CHAMBOURIN.NET Blog For Women
ShopWithASAHM.com - Currently A Shopping Blog But I’m Thinking Of Converting It Into Another Ventrino Exchange By September.
SimplyAdored.com (Not Yet Updated, But Definitely In The Process) And Its Got A Really Cute Layout!
Angel WAHMs Is Now A Ning Community

And After Its Unexpected & Unfortunate & Heartbreaking Closure As A Traffic Exchange, MPD Is Currently Pointed Here To ShanniEiner.com Until I Can Figure Out Just What It Could Possibly Be After A TE.

Tweet This Please Needs Some Lovin Too - I Haven’t Done Much With The Site In A Bit. I’ve Been Looking For A Great Marketing Platform For It For A While. I Joined Paid Per Tweet To Make Money By Posting Other Peoples Websites. But They Never Have Any New Offers. And I’ve Applied To Several Places For Network Sponsor Ads But Places Keep Turning Me Down For Some Unknown Reason. They’ll Always Give You A List Of Reasons Of Why They Didn’t Approve Your Site. But They Send Out That Default Denial Letter So You Never Get An Exact Reason And I Know Their Reasons For Denying My Sites Weren’t Right. They Mainly Require That Your Site Be A Top Level & Professional Domain, Get A Certain Amount Of Visitors & Contain No Harmful Or Adult Content. My Sites Are Always Top Level, I Get Thousands & Thousands Of Visitors To My Sites Every Day, Week, Month, And Never Would They Contain Harmful Or Malicious Content Unsuitable For The General Public. Everyone Knows I’m A Consciencious Work At Home Mom Or I Wouldn’t Dare Own FamilyAffiliates.com. So I’m Working On Setting Up A New Marketing Platform Through My Marketing Site/Store Mom Banners That Will Blow Everyone Out Of The Water. Very Effective Marketing That Won’t Just Be Placing Sponsor Ads On My Sites. I Do Know A Thing Or Two (A TON Actually) About Marketing And I Don’t Think People Are Quite Aware Of Just How Much I Am Capable Of Achieving.

And I Saw A Poster Of My Sons While We Were Moving That I Think Is So Awesome - So True & Motivating. I Don’t Know Why I Never Saw It Before, But I’m Glad I Did. It Made Me Think. It Said

“There Are No Shortcuts To Lifes’ Greatest Achievements”

Wow Did That Ever Knock Me On My Feet & Make Me Think. It Actually Made Me Smile And Feel Hopeful & Good. I’ve Been Through A Lot In My Life That Would Make Most People Hide Under A Rock And Just Give Up. I’ve Never Gotten Easy Breaks Or Found The Easier Road In Life. I’ve Learned A Lot In My Life & Do My Best To Use It To The Best Of My Ability. So When I Saw This I Thought, How True. But It Just Goes To Show That Easy Come, Easy Go. You Know That Old Saying. And That’s One Thing I Try To Teach People & Help People With Is Longevity, Doing Things The Right Way, To Keep Going ESPECIALLY When You Want To Give Up. I’ve Been Trying To Make Money Online For 10 Years Now And Only Have Become Successful In The Last Two. Most People Would Have Given Up By Now. But I Always Knew, Nothing Was Going To Stop Me And Nothing Has, I Never Got Those Shortcuts. But I Learned A Lot. It Scares Me To Death To Think Of People Out There That Just Didn’t Have The Chance When They Needed It Most And Things Could Have Been A Lot Better. I Could Have Used A Person Like Who I Have Become In My Work Then. So I Guess I Had To Become The Person I Always Needed. And I’ve Finally Narrowed Down My Marketplace To My True Niche - My Work Is Based On Who I Am - A Work At Home MOM. Not A Network Marketer, Not A Guru, But Someone Who Uses My Intelligence To The Best Of My Ability. And I Really Want To Use That To Help Others. So If You’re Reading My Blog & Need Some Friendly Advice About Many Things, Click On The Ask Shanni Link Above & Submit Your Question.

I Hope Everyone Is Well & Take Care. Thanks A Lot For Reading My Blog, And Shelden, We’ll Call You Later To Wish You A Happy Birthday

Take Care & God Bless,

Shanni

Today’s Post At MomsWebPlace.com Will Crack You Up!

By Shanni on Monday, June 15, 2009
Filled Under: Uncategorized

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I Wrote The Most Interesting Article At One Of My Sites MomsWebPlace.com - Advice For Moms On How To Make Good Use Of Cracked Dishes. Check Out The Article. Its Funny, Fun & Useful All At The Same Time.

I Also Changed My Theme Not Only Here But At Moms Web Place, The Mom Banners Blog & Shop From My Heart.com So Go Check Them Out & Let Me Know What You Think - I Love The WOW Factor!

Have Fun!

Mom Banners - Just Updated

Mom Banners - DotMom Marketing Services

I Spent All Night Tonight Re-Vamping My Site Mom Banners And It Looks Pretty Dang Tight If You Ask Me - Looks Awesome! Come Check It Out.

I Just Found A Really Cool Site….

By Shanni on Tuesday, June 2, 2009
Filled Under: Uncategorized

Well I Wanted To Post It. I Just Found It While Surfing. It Works For A Problogger Like Me.
But, Just To Clarify, This Is Both Noted As A Personal & Professional Blog On My Domain So That My Family & Friends Always Know How To Reach Me For One And Because I Am A Pro Blogger.
Anyways, If You’re A Pro Blogger Like Me And Aren’t A Member, Check It Out. Looks Like A Really Cool Blog Promotion/Traffic Exchange For Bloggers. I Will Be Adding It To All My Blogs Which Receive Tons Of Traffic Every Day, Plus I Tweet - So Tweet Me At My Twitter Blog TweetThisPlease.com.

Have Fun Everyone & Enjoy Blog Explosion!
Shanni

By Shanni on Monday, June 1, 2009
Filled Under: Uncategorized

Me & My Beautiful Family

Me & My Beautiful Family


Here You Go Shelden, Here’s A Picture Of Us - Your Brother, 2 Sisters, Me & Your Step Dad. We Love & Miss You, Wish You Were Here.
Love, Mom

When Was The Last Time You Stopped & Smelled The Flowers?

Heavens, I Know - Sounds Like Such A Cliche Doesn’t It?
But I Had To Blog Tonight.
See I Was Outside Tonight With My Husband For Some Reason. My Son Was Inside Watching TV With My 2 Little Daughters.
Well While We Were Outside, I Looked Over Into Our Neighbors Yard. I Don’t Know Why I Did, But I Just Did. In The 2 Years I’ve Lived Here Which Time Is Drawing To Its End Here, I’ve Never Noticed The Flowers In Their Backyard. I Always Noticed Our Neighbor Isaac - The Dad, Doing Yard Work, Or His Kids & Mine Playing Out Back. But Never The Flowers. Ever.
So Why Was Tonight Different? I Don’t Know. Suddenly I Glanced Over And Saw A Shimmer Of The Flowers In The Yard.
So I Looked A Bit More & Noticed How Many Flower Patches They Have. Why Didn’t I Ever Notice Before? I Was Too Busy With Life To Stop & Smell The Roses
And There Were Many Different Flowers - I Was In Such Awe. And I Just Love Flowers As You Can See From This Layout & The Graphics On The Site.
Anyways, I Continued Along The Side Panel Of Their Yard & Looked At The Entire Line Of Flowers That Are In Their Yard. Wow As I Said, Why Didn’t I Ever Notice It Before?
So Then I Called My Husband Over Whom You’d Never Guess Would Never Know About Flowers But He Did. I Told Him I Was Going For A Walk Because I Just Got Caught Up In Flowers. And I Did, And Wow Did I Learn So Much About Flowers & The Relevance To And Of Life. How Much They Can Teach Us And Diversity Of The Human Spirit. That Some Things Are Intended To Bloom & Some Things Have Their Time And Escape Our Presence Before We Have A Chance To Enjoy Its Beauty & Wonder.
I’ve Learned In Recent Times After Suffering Some Hardships In My Professional Life Such As The Sudden Unexpected Closure Of Some Of My Sites And How Devastated It Made Me That Some Things I Have Found In Life Just Have To Be.
I’ve Learned That Sometimes God Has A Plan Even If Its Not Mine, That May Be For The Greater Good & He Had A Different Plan For My Main Exchange MPD - I Haven’t Figured Out What That Is Yet. But Also To Pray About Things & Meditate Them. Take Time To See The Larger Picture. And Often Times, Not Long After These Winding Roads Find Us In Life Do We Figure Out What They Are & Why We Find Ourselves On Them.
Its Funny Because We Have To Move. We Have A Horrible Landlord Who Is Not Taking Care Of Things That Are His Responsibility As A Landlord To Deal With. It Has Made Our Living Situation A Very Hard One. We’ve Complained Numerous Times About Things He Doesn’t Fix That Could Be Fatal To Our Kids. He Being The Jerk That He Is, Has Given Us A 30 Day Notice To Move - Yes, An Eviction.
Ironically I’m Not Upset That We Have To Move, I’m Offended That He Has The Audacity To Do Such A Thing When We’re Only Trying To Take Care Of Our Kids. The Irony Is - WOOHOO - My Hubby Can’t Use “We Don’t Have The Money To Move” Now As An Excuse. See It Was About A Year Ago When I Found Out We Were Having Our Baby And I Said We Need To Move By July (For Nicholas’ Sake Mainly For School). And Its Taken Us This Long. I Had Given Up Hope Of Moving.
So Its Times Like These, When I Should Be Upset That We Have To Move, That Its Time To Be Grateful For God’s Mysterious Ways. I Would Have Been Upset Under Any Other Circumstances, But I’m Glad.
See I Just Know That God Has His Mysterious Ways - Its Time For A Change. Its Time For Growth, For Everything There Is A Season.
I Took A Walk Also Shortly After I Gazed At The Neighbors Beautiful Flower Garden & Realized - Its Time To Take A Look At God’s Wonderful Ways - Take The Time, Its Worth It.